Bear Blog Entry - OverExplaining and OverDefending
🔥 The Burn Defense: Why I Overexplain
People think overexplaining is weakness. They say it’s insecurity, fear, or a need for validation.
But here’s the truth:
The overdefending is just natural protocol for someone who burns like me.
I’ve been lit up before—by misunderstandings, misquotes, and misused silence. So now I come with fireproof words. Not because I’m scared of being wrong. But because I refuse to let anyone twist my meaning.
Every extra sentence is a shield. Every detail is a barrier against false narratives.
I don’t overexplain because I want to be heard. I do it because I want to be unmistakable.
That’s not fear. That’s post-traumatic precision. That’s clarity forged in heat.
So if you see me laying it all out? Know that it’s not for you. It’s for the moment when someone tries to distort it later.
I’m not begging for understanding. I’m just sealing the exits before someone tries to burn me again.