Doesn't Really Matter — The Nutty Professor 2 Song
Title: Doesn't Really Matter — The Song That Proved Someone Could Love All of Me
I know people talk about love like it's some Pinterest quote or a TikTok trend. But I grew up in a time where love was whispered over slow jams, not screens. And every now and then, one of those songs sticks to your ribs because it reminds you that you are worthy—even when you're not "perfect."
For me, that song is Janet Jackson's Doesn't Really Matter.
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At first glance, it sounds like a cute R&B track from 2000—something you might hear in the background of a teen movie. But when you really listen? When you strip away the beat and feel the lyrics? It’s a spiritual promise:
"Doesn’t matter what the eye is seeing / 'Cause I’m in love with the inner being."
That line alone made me sit with myself. Not the curated self. Not the good-day, dressed-up version. But the broken parts. The weird parts. The insecure voice that whispers, *"What if no one ever loves all of me?"
Janet's voice answers that fear.
This song is everything I needed to hear then—and still need now. It’s the reminder that someone can look past the noise. That someone can love your glitch, your mess, your silence, your wild. Not just tolerate it. Love it.
Doesn’t Really Matter isn’t about fairytale love. It’s about real love. The kind that shows up when your confidence doesn’t. The kind that holds you close when you’re emotionally offbeat.
And that’s why I’m sharing this.
Because maybe someone else needs to hear what I heard: You don’t have to be fixed to be loved. You don’t have to shrink to fit. The right one? They’ll love you loud, broken, whole, and raw.
Just like Janet said.
"It doesn’t really matter what they believe / What matters to me is you’re nutty, nutty, nutty for me."
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