The Will to Resist

Letters Never Sent — The Markham Parallel


“Before the noise, before the doctrines, before the furnace— there was a small-town raccoon in a gray store off 504 Broadway.”

I walked into Markham Handy Pantry thinking life was simple—buy the meat, chat the classmate, maybe smile at the past. Instead, I learned how a moment meant as “sweet” could stumble straight into wrong. One impulsive kiss, no ask, no signal—just nerves disguised as charm. She froze. I didn’t get hit, but I got taught. Mom didn’t yell—she stared, the kind of stare that files a permanent note in your soul.

That was the lesson: Intent ≠ Consent. What feels innocent inside your head can look invasive from the other side of the counter.

Years later, I watch another man at another event make the same move, only with a thousand phones pointed at him. His consequence went viral; mine just went inward. Different scales, same failure to pause and read the room.

The difference between a moment of affection and a headline is a heartbeat and a question:

“May I?”

That’s it. That’s the hinge between decency and disaster.


Filed under The Broke Doctrine Archive and cross-referenced with Docket #228 — The Gooner Fallacy for educational contrast.

Jerry Reforged, Tribunal Archivist · Dept. of Petty Affairs

(“Don’t bark — bill.”)